The reluctant baby led weaner 

The reluctant baby led weaner 

It’s fair to say weaning hasn’t gone as I planned. E is now almost 8 months. I started giving her vegetable purees a week or 2 before she turned 6 months.

For almost 3 weeks, I steamed and pureed fruit and vegetables and attempted to feed them to her. At first, she was happy to accept the spoon but pushed food back out. Then she stopped opening her mouth for the spoon. She just didn’t seem interested, yet she was always trying to grab food off our plates.

One day I spread the vegetable puree she was refusing on a toast finger and she went mad for it. Granted not much was swallowed but she was very enthusiastic. Since that day, we’ve been taking a more baby led approach. We started with toast and steamed fruit and vegetable strips. Broccoli, carrots, green beans, apples and cauliflower. We also gave soft banana and avocados. It took a while for her to start eating much but she’s always been enthusiastic and I guess you can’t ask for more than that.

Gradually the variety of foods she eats has increased. She no longer requires food to be in strips, as she can pick up big lumps and get them into her mouth. It’s been fascinating to watch. She’s not really gagged on food much either thankfully. Boy is it messy though.

For me, the biggest challenge has been getting my head round what to feed her. My eldest was traditionally weaned (with finger food and purees) and that was what I had planned to do this time. I had a few books with weaning plans for different ages and stages and lots of recipes. I enjoy cooking and I think I was quite looking forward to making her purees. I felt like I knew where I was with purees. I would know how much she was eating and that she was getting a balanced meal.

Over the last two months, I’ve reminded myself that food is fun until one and that she is getting a lot of her nutrition from milk still. I’ve also watched her ability to pick up and also eat food improve. She’ll pretty much try anything so I’m trying to make sure she is introduced to a wide variety of foods.  I don’t feel she eats much meat but she does try it. She’s almost got her first tooth so perhaps this might help.

We do use a spoon occasionally to feed her yogurt which she likes but she constantly grabs the spoon to “help” you feed her. She loves natural yogurt and recognises the pot instantly. Once she’s seen the pot, you can’t feed her fast enough. We do try giving her loaded spoons too but she’s still learning which end to put in her mouth and how to not lose the contents of the spoon.

I’m still learning how to make a meal that we can all eat but we are getting there. Roast dinners have always been good but also pasta dishes. Now that her pincer grip is improving all the time it’s getting easier to feed her the same as us.  I’d say she eats the same as us mostly but I have also made her some finger foods like pancakes, fritters and savory scones. Perhaps I will share some recipes or just meal ideas soon.

img_6813Weaning might not have gone to my plan but my daughter clearly has her own ideas. She’s enthusiastic most of the time and is gaining in abilities all the time. I’m enjoying watching her eat and in hindsight, I’m not sure how I would have found time to make her purees. I’m enjoying that we can all sit and eat a meal together without one of us having to spoon feed her first.

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  1. January 30, 2017 / 1:48 pm

    Awww she seems to be doing really well trying all the foods you’ve given her. You’re doing really well..I found that sometimes both BWL and spoon feeding combined worked well. For example if we’re having spag bol I’ll just make sure I cut up her spag bol really fine and then let her feed herself and occasionally feeding her a spoon or two so she can enjoy a mouthful of it too 🙂 well done and keep going! #MarvMondays

  2. Helen
    January 30, 2017 / 7:56 pm

    The weaning stage is a fun, yet scary one. I was so worried as we started weaning our daughter, so many questions and the constant worry of choking. However, I’ve loved creating new baby friendly foods for her, many of which I’ve shared on my blog if you’re looking for more inspiration – search ‘weaning’ Long may the fun continue 🙂 #MarvMondays

    Helen x

  3. January 30, 2017 / 8:47 pm

    How brilliant that you have adapted to your baby and not sticking to what’s comfortable and easy for you. My 9 month old has been a slow starter on the whole food front. I started with BLW but he was a massive gagger to the point where he was also sick and I worried he was choking all the time. So I switched to puree. Now I do a mix of both and I really regret not doing BLW with my 2 year old when she was little. It’s amazing watching them isn’t it? #MarvMondays

    • January 30, 2017 / 8:57 pm

      I don’t think I could have continued BLW if she was gagging and being sick. It is amazing watching them.

  4. Mummy Bee
    February 1, 2017 / 11:53 am

    I started weaning my baby a month a ago and it has been so difficult he also refuses to be feed but will try to grab food off our plates. I think I might try baby led weaning and see if he will eat better when feeding himself, my only worry is him choking that’s the only thing that holds me back. #BloggerClubUK

    • February 1, 2017 / 8:11 pm

      It’s hard when they are not interested. Choking worries me too but I did a first aid course at our children’s centre which helps. Thankfully she’s barely gagged even so far.

  5. Becky, Cuddle Fairy
    February 7, 2017 / 4:09 pm

    Aww your daughter is doing really well! It’s all about fun tasting. I always felt reassured that the majority of goodness is still coming from the milk too. Thank you for sharing with us at #BloggerClubUK x

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